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Parfois, nous laissons les émotions nous emporter lorsque nous voyons l’imperfection des autres. Puisque nous sommes humains, nous ne sommes pas parfaits. Nous avons chacun nos faiblesses et nos défauts. Il y a certains domaines où l’on excelle, et d’autres où l’on est moins bien. C’est normal et nous en sommes bien conscients.
Cependant, des fois nous refusons de supporter les petits défauts de l’autre. Ainsi, au lieu de l’aider, nous le critiquons, nous le rabaissons, nous lui répétons jour et nuit qu’il n’est pas assez bien, pas assez intelligent, pas assez habile.
Ma sœur, mon frère, si tu t’y reconnais, il est temps de changer cette très mauvaise attitude. Dieu ne nous appelle pas à décourager notre prochain, et encore moins à le faire douter de lui. Ce, à quoi Il nous appelle, c’est à l’amour de notre prochain. C’est-à-dire, à l’encourager, à l’aider, à l’inciter à ne pas abandonner, et à lui redonner confiance en lui.
Au lieu de critiquer…
Matthieu 7 : 1 – 3 (LSG) « Ne jugez point, afin que vous ne soyez point jugés. Car on vous jugera du jugement dont vous jugez, et l’on vous mesurera avec la mesure dont vous mesurez. Pourquoi vois-tu la paille qui est dans l’œil de ton frère, et n’aperçois-tu pas la poutre qui est dans ton œil? »
Tu as demandé à quelqu’un d’accomplir une tâche et il a eu des difficultés à la faire. Tu travailles avec certaines personnes qui ne sont pas à la hauteur de tes attentes. Résultat : tu n’es pas satisfait (e) et tu es déçu (e).
Tu commences à critiquer la personne. Tu cherches tous ses points faibles et tu veux l’attaquer là où ça fait le plus mal pour déverser ta colère. Ainsi, les mots sortent sans filtre de ta bouche. Des critiques décourageantes, des propos irréfléchis, des paroles qui blessent.
Et au fil du temps, le même épisode se répète de plus en plus. Les mots deviennent encore plus forts et plus poignants.
Jacques 4 : 11-12 (LSG) « Ne parlez point mal les uns des autres, frères. Celui qui parle mal d’un frère, ou qui juge son frère, parle mal de la loi et juge la loi. Or, si tu juges la loi, tu n’es pas observateur de la loi, mais tu en es juge. Un seul est législateur et juge, c’est celui qui peut sauver et perdre ; mais toi, qui es-tu, qui juges le prochain? »
Ce n’est pas à nous de juger ou d’évaluer notre prochain. Nous-mêmes nous sommes imparfaits. Alors, pourquoi sommes-nous tellement habitués à critiquer ?
Qu’est-ce que tu y obtiens ? A quoi te sert-il de blâmer ton compagnon, tes enfants ou tes collègues ? Penses-tu que cela les encouragera et les poussera à s’améliorer ? N’es-tu pas en train de les enfoncer encore plus, de les déstabiliser et de les tuer intérieurement ? Penses-tu que Dieu en est ravi ?
Commence à encourager !
1 Thessaloniciens 5 :11 (LSG) « C’est pourquoi exhortez-vous réciproquement, et édifiez-vous les uns les autres, comme en réalité vous le faites. »
Tu peux très bien faire quelque chose pour que tes enfants, ton conjoint, tes employés ou tes collègues s’améliorent. Tu peux encourager, aider et inspirer. Remplace ces propos blessants par des mots plus positifs et plus inspirants qui stimulent la motivation de l’autre.
En tant que chrétiens, nous ne devons en aucun cas devenir le facteur de découragement et d’abandon d’autrui. Au contraire, nous sommes appelés à devenir une source inépuisable d’énergies positives et divines pour tous nos proches.
Alors dans ce cas seulement, nous pourrons changer les choses. Nous augmentons ainsi les chances de réussite, d’épanouissement et de dépassement de soi de nos proches. Nous leur redonnons confiance en eux-mêmes. Et nous les aidons à reconnaître les talents, les capacités et les atouts que Dieu a mis en eux.
Galates 5 : 22 (Martin Bible) « Mais le fruit de l’Esprit est la charité, la joie, la paix, un esprit patient, la bonté, la bénéficence, la fidélité, la douceur, la tempérance. »
Demandons au Saint-Esprit de nous accompagner au quotidien pour qu’à chaque fois que nous ouvrons la bouche, nous transmettons et véhiculons quelque chose de positif. Soyons cette source de bénédictions pour tous nos proches. Que nous puissions raviver leur motivation quand ils sont au plus bas. Que nous soyons des outils efficaces au service de notre Père pour encourager notre prochain.
Que DIEU te bénisse abondamment !
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